Post written by Caiya, United Planet Team member
Weddings are very sacred and inviolable ceremonies in nations the world over. They give insight into a country’s national traditions, customs and culture. Today UP is showcasing the wedding traditions of Tibet:
The day before the wedding, the engaged are not allowed to see each other at all. During the day, monks pray for their marriage to dispel any bad luck.
The above picture is an example of the dress of a newly-married couple. Accompanying them are the best man and bridesmaid.
On the wedding day, a show man repeats Tibetan rhymed congratulatory words for the new couple. Then, it is the time for guests to show their best wishes to both the bride and groom by offering khadas, or scarves.
Then, the performances begin. During the show, the couple’s parents and relatives toast with the guests. The evening ends with a toast made by the new couple.
After the wedding, all the relatives, friends, old classmates and colleagues gather at the new couple’s home and celebrate until that late night. In Tibet, a new couple is not allowed to leave their home for three whole days—a test for both of them as to the strength of the marriage. If they persist, then Tibetans believe that their marriage will last forever.
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