Spending time abroad is an incredible experience; it is transformative, immersive, and challenging all at once. The challenges it presents are often a source of growth, and vary from person to person. Navigating those difficult feelings, like initial culture shock or homesickness, is an important step towards becoming a global citizen. Since the sociopolitical climate for LGBT people is different internationally, travelers need to take into account how their sexuality and/or gender identity may affect their experience. Here at United Planet the safety of our volunteers is of the utmost importance, so read up on some tips for the best possible experience.
- Do your research
Being aware of cultural differences when it comes to gender and sexuality is very important. Some countries are more conservative, and may not be accustomed to certain forms of expression. Educating yourself on cultural norms in country is vital to keeping yourself safe. There is no one size fits all rule – experiencing life as an LGBT person is very different in Denmark than in Ghana! Make sure to research the following:
- Legality affecting LGBT persons
- Any safety issues
- Location of the US Embassy
- Gender neutral bathrooms
- Language (gender pronouns)
- LGBT friendly areas, establishments, health clinics, etc.
- Gender roles & customs
- Styles of dress
- Necessary documentation*
*Primarily applies to transgender and non-binary volunteers. Some foreign entities might question your documentation, so make sure to be prepared just in case.
- Establish a support network
Depending on where you travel, you may have access to LGBT safe spaces and resources in country. However, that might not be the case due to language barriers or other reasons. Thus, the importance of finding people you can trust and talk to ‑ even if they are at home. Building a solid support system makes the adjustment period smoother.
- Coming out (again)
After spending some time in country and feeling out the level of tolerance, you might decide to open up about your LGBT identity to others. This may be a strange thing for those of us who have been out of the closet for many years, and having to go through coming out again may be stressful or triggering. Use your best judgment and only share as much as you feel comfortable – but you may be pleasantly surprised!
- Advocacy
Keep up-to-date on the status of LGBT rights in your host country. Global citizenship means advocating for yourself and others. Keep in mind your personal safety, but also take the opportunity engage in respectful dialogue if you feel comfortable.
- Reflection
Living in a different part of the world is an amazing opportunity to alter your perspectives. Through the relationships you form and kindness you experience abroad, reflect upon what it means to be LGBT in the world. Moreover, consider what effective allyship means to you – and how to be the best ally to global communities.
References: ILGA, U.S. Department of State, Go Overseas, USF
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